Archive for March, 2011

Being Dominant And Submissive

by admin on Tuesday, March 29th, 2011

Being dominant and submissive are two very different qualities. If you are into BDSM then you will need to know which of these qualities suits you more. Being able to know if you are more dominate or more submissive is something that is going to help you to understand how you will be able to get the most sexual satisfaction from your partner.


A person that is more dominant will tend to be in charge more often and call the shots. They will often like to be with a person that is meeker so that they can tell them what to do and how to do it. Dominant people are often seen to be controlling when compared to other types of people. They will be the one that others look to when they do not know what to do.


If a person is more submissive then they tend to prefer to be lead around. They will often not attempt to be the leader of anything at any time. They will also enjoy being with a person that can tell them what to do and how to do it. These people do not tend to make very good leaders as they are always looking to others to tell them what to do.

Middle Ground

A lot of the time people will be neither overly dominant nor overly submissive. This is something that is common. Most people that are not one or the other will usually need to try to be both dominant and submissive and bed and see which they prefer.